Wedding toast writer
A toast is a speech’s shorter cousin: one to two minutes, a single thought and a raised glass. It suits guests, friends, grandparents, and rehearsal dinner hosts who want to say something warm without a full speech.
- 1–2 mintypical length
- 130–260words at 130 wpm
- 3 partswho you are · one thought · glasses up
- 1 Occasion
- 2 Your memories
- 3 Edit & rehearse
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The structure of a wedding toast
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1. Who you are
One line on how you know the couple.
In this sample: 15 words, about 0:07 spoken, 21% of the speech.
I’m Alex’s uncle, Dev, and I’ve known him since he was a very loud baby.
The first time Alex brought Sam to a family dinner, Sam asked my mother for the recipe and actually wrote it down. My mother talked about it for a month. That tells you everything: Sam pays attention to what matters to the people Alex loves.
So here’s to paying attention, to each other, always. To Alex and Sam.
How to write a wedding toast, step by step
- Say who you are.
- Share one thought or small story.
- Raise your glass and name the couple.
- Keep it under two minutes, about 150–250 words.
- Keep it under two minutes
- Stick to one idea
- Stand where people can see you
- End with the couple’s names
- Turn it into a full speech
- Tell inside jokes
- Toast with an empty glass
- Make it about yourself
Wedding toast questions
How long is a wedding toast?
One to two minutes, roughly 130 to 260 words. A toast is deliberately shorter than a speech.
What is the difference between a toast and a speech?
A speech has several beats (thanks, story, welcome, toast). A toast has one idea and ends with a raised glass.
What do you say at a rehearsal dinner toast?
Thank the hosts, share a quick memory of the couple, and toast the wedding to come. Rehearsal dinners suit more personal, looser toasts than the reception.